Dear Nancy: Thanks for the information on the OZ headstones, I live in the states and didn't have a clue what they were called anywhere, I've never even dealt with a cemetery. Both people close to me whom died were cremated, Mum doesn't have a headstone, but will, 20 years later, and the other was an English friend who we shipped back to England, who we kept losing...I never realized the importance of headstones until I started doing my family research. This is a learning experience and we learn from some of the nicest people. Cheers Jani