hello: i was just in a genealogy chat room and there was a person working on the name DARLING and i remember someone in this digest looking for that name. so heres their e-mail address. i told them i would be contacting you and they are ancicous to talk. sorry i can't recall your name..they are Jjbarnell@aol.com good luck. i truely hope theres a connection here...maggie coughlan