One last time (for me). If this is a web site for recipes, jokes, and "political" statements, I ask the site director to please state that it is so. If it is a site for the use of those of us who want to exchange genealogical information or ask for help, I would love to see this accentuated by "the management". Why can't personal messages be sent privately? This is the fourth site that I have seen these problems on in the last few months and all resulted in many days of wrangling and hard feelings, with several people sending "unsubscribe" messages. Those are people who might have been able to help another find a missing ancestor. Edward