Hello Shan, I am sorry that someone offended you, I am sure that it wasn't meant to do so. I sincerely apologize for you being offended. I can see both sides of the coin. I can appreciate that you took the statement as personal. But I feel it wasn't mean't personal. You have got to realize that the idea that was trying to be put across was the misuse of lists. And it does happen. Spam etc. is very hard on list members and I have seen where lists were shut down with reply to, reply to, reply messages. It doesn't hurt, in my opinion to get off subject every once in a while if it isn't over done, but it is very hard to control. Perhaps we should be more careful in what we say and think twice. You never know.. And I really hope I don't offend anyone with my opinion.. Sincerely Sandie