Here are some links to the Westfield NJ area. Maybe they can help you locate the RUDD tombstone. http://www.westfieldnj.com/fairview/more.htm http://www.genealogy.com/genealogy/users/h/i/l/Dorothy-J-Hill/ http://www.bobdevlin.com/wsgenlo.html http://cgi.rootsweb.com/~genbbs/genbbs.cgi/USA/NJ/Union