Here is a quip recently sent to me by a friend who is going through the same frustration with his own family as we are with the Riddles----"There is a bright side and a dark side to genealogy. The bright side is that it keeps you off the streets and out of the pool halls. The dark side is the only reason you and I spend so much time on it is that we want to find out all we can about our ancestors before we meet them"----AMEN------Jim Riddle