Hello, Debbie, Lulu GROSS (1882-1908) was married to John Patrick PHALEN (1870-1902), son of Rebecca Helen THOMAS and Joseph PHALEN.  Rebecca THOMAS was the daughter of Elizabeth REED and George Washington THOMAS, Sr.  Lulu GROSS is the only GROSS in my database.  They had three (3) children: Cecelia m. FRIEND, Joseph P. m. HERMAN, and Luella Ruth m. JEDLICKA. Hope this helps, Melinda K. Green Omaha, NE Please respond to: [email protected] Thank you and sorry for the inconvenience