Debbie, That was their comment, not mine... I want to say that they are looking down on those doing it, and telling that higher power whether or not they are willing to accept their efforts.... Anettka In a message dated 5/7/2008 3:59:34 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time, Debbie writes: Anettka, How does one get permission from a dead person? "The answer was that they had the right to refuse/not accept the baptism... " Debbie **************Wondering what's for Dinner Tonight? Get new twists on family favorites at AOL Food. (http://food.aol.com/dinner-tonight?NCID=aolfod00030000000001)