Hello - I joined this list yesterday. I have just received the first email from PAYNE-L. What fabulous first impressions this list makes!! The very first thing I read is: snip >I am unsubcribing from this list > because I cannot accept the behavior that I have witnessed. If a group of > people cannot be laid back or civil enough to simply read what someone wrote > without going ballistic, then I do not belong with them. snip I am NOT taking issue with the person who wrote of the decision to unsubscribe. I AM wondering loudly about what kind of people would drive another to that decision and not give a second thought that this might be someone's first impression of the list. I will wait to see what the second email from PAYNE-L brings. I already wonder "what have I gotten myself into?" Gena