Iris, On both 1910 and 1920, Jennie is listed as a widowed head of household - no Carmie in sight. Did you get the dates on his stone from the stone itself or a transcription? Perhaps he died in 1908...not that it makes any difference. By the way, in 1910 she had two sons at home - Galen and Arlayne, so exotic names apparently run in the family. Ann