In a message dated 99-02-10 19:10:29 EST, [email protected] writes: << I received the following little "poem" from a friend who types this on a 3x5 card then puts her name, relationship, snail-mail address and e-mail address on the back, then laminates it, punches a hole in it and ties it to a single stem artificial flower and puts it on her ancestor's graves when she is visiting cemeteries whether those close by or in different states. That way the next person who might be researching may get in touch with her. I think this is a great idea. >> Another way is to put a card or note inside a glass (not plastic, they are too light) jar and leave it at the base of the tombstone. Linda