Hi Sue, If you have a program like Family Tree Maker and you pick an individual you can run a report and see what their relationship is to everyone else in your database. I have several versions of Family Tree Maker. Ancestry.com just sent me the newest version 11 free with my subscription. If you want Version 9 I'd be happy to send it to you. That way you own the actual program and not an unauthorized copy. Let me know. I still have your snail mail addy from the Smigiel research I was trying to help you with. Take Care, Michelle