Hats off to both the Ken's for giving young Tom a chance to accept responsibility for his actions. You are both teaching him the most valuable thing he'll ever know--forgiveness. Let's hope the lessons he'll learn at your sides these next weeks will carry him through the rest of his life and make his ailing mother proud of the new direction this young man is taking. Bless you both for all you're doing--for the listers, the Riverview Cemetery inhabitants and their descendants, and most of all, for reaching out to someone in trouble and showing him a better way. There should be more people like you on the planet. Michele from Michigan