Do we really need these messages gatewayed to the list when Ancestry makes it so difficult to reply??? losing contact information even when the remember box is checked, giving profiles telling where the person lives but denying contact??? AMEN.................! I agree, I always send replys to the Lists, thank you sweetheart. Lori ************************************** AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at http://www.aol.com.