I have a Deviant in my family like you wouldn't believe. I found out about this strictly by accident. I prefer that others not know about it. I have written an account without names or dates and have changed the noun that describes the action so I can recall the details if I wish to. But, and I hope I am right, I really don't think that anyone would be able to identify the person or the issue. If it dies with me, so be it. Knowing about it will not help anyone. If other family members ask if I know anything about this person, I will say that I know they were troubled and created a lot of heartache for their parents. That is quite enough. Tom in SLC