Kathy, don't apologize for venting, I am glad you did. I too am not against guns, but do not believe in setting up dangerous situations. I have some guns, but the ammunition for them is locked up where only I have access to them. I am not about to take chances with guns or knives. I was a safe hunter instructor for a while, and am very conscious of the risks of loaded guns. Thanks for sharing your situation, and we will pray for the kids, their mom, and yes, their dad, so he may have his eyes opened and realize the risk he is creating. Don in AZ