hi tracy, i'm with mary 100% on this one...bryan has to know that there is at least one person he can count on, and as his wife it's got to be you...especially now when any faith your hubby had in his sibs has been crushed and they continue to lie to him...not telling him would amount to a lie of omission and would break his trust in you... good luck and God bless~ sue (in rainy, it's-gonna-get-cold-again NE Florida) -- i believe i'm experiencing amnesia and deja vu at the same time~i think i've forgotten this before... -------------- Original message -------------- From: "Mary Sayman" <[email protected]> > Tracy, > > I think you need to sit Bryan down and let him know what is going on. Don't > wait for him to ask you. He'll be doubly upset > if you keep it from him. He needs to be able to trust you without any > question in his mind. You have shown him that you > have always been up front and honest with him, unlike his own family. Don't > change that now. I am afraid that it would > only cause harm to your relationship. I know he is very upset already, but > he really does need to know the truth. Just do > it as gently as you can.... > > Hugs, > Mary >