Thanks Sue. I'm with both of you, and Lynn too!   tracy --- On Wed, 1/28/09, Sue wrote: i'm with mary 100% on this one...bryan has to know that there is at least one person he can count on, and as his wife it's got to be you...especially now when any faith your hubby had in his sibs has been crushed and they continue to lie to him...not telling him would amount to a lie of omission and would break his trust in you... good luck and God bless~