Jacquelyn, I can relate to that. A couple of years ago, my cousin noted that our great X2 grandmother's name (she died in 1938) was not on the headstone with great X2 grandfather. She headed up the project of getting the engraving done! Thanks to her, Cyrus and Matilda (YINGLING) MICHAEL names are now preserved for posterity. Happy hunting! Dot Michael Dresher, PA Original Message: My great grandparents have been without a marker for over *60* years, and they did have several children that survived them (out of the 12 born). So, *when* I know beyond a shadow of doubt the maiden name of my great grandmother, it is my goal to order a double headstone and travel to the cemetery in Pennsylvania to watch it placed on their unmarked graves! Best to all, Jacquelyn