Dear Listers: I have responded to one person already ... but have missed the original argument. What Iwould like to say is that bless all the people who are willing to share! I personally am one of those long term novices, trying to find family and have only been able to do so because there were patient people out there who helped me. Now I am in touch with literally more than I can handle with living relations I didn't know about ... we visit, we communicate, we share information and we share familial affection! All made possible by the lists and kind hearted people. Karenfayef