Tom: I believe that the general policy is NOT to list the living. That is certainly the policy at the LDS Family Search Site. >From my personal point of view, I do not list the living and would not want anyone else to list me. One of the questions asked by credit companies and banks for identification is "mother's maiden name". We don't need this information on the internet. I think it would be prudent to remove the names of your living relatives from your web site unless you have specific permission from them. Betty Garro