Definition of a Widow: I will put in a little note here. Recently I read and I will try to recall from what, that when a woman felt her marriage was a "dead marriage" she called herself a widow, even though her husband was alive. She lived in dead marriage. Dottie **************Feeling the pinch at the grocery store? Make dinner for $10 or less. (http://food.aol.com/frugal-feasts?ncid=emlcntusfood00000001)