For the one who is looking for their loved ones and is having problems with working with the cemeteries. If you are not local in addition to Random Acts of Genealogical Kindness there is HeadstoneHunter.com where you can list your request and a volunteer will go to the cemetery for you and search. You can wait for a volunteer to contact you or you can search for a volunteer in the area you are searching. I am a headstonehunter volunteer but I am in the Mass and CT area. If you have any questions on headstonehunter.com you can e-mail me. Sandy in Mass