This is a Message Board Post that is gatewayed to this mailing list. Surnames: HARMON Classification: Query Message Board URL: http://boards.ancestry.com/mbexec/msg/rw/zcB.2ACI/923.1.1.1 Message Board Post: If I were you, Carol, I think I would send an apology to Mary for your having been so sharp-tongued in your response to her very kind attempt to be helpful. You were looking for marriage info in Oregon so it was only natural that she would ask you the question she did, even tho' she said it was a long shot. There are many very helpful researchers with Oregon info or access to Oregon records, but I'm sure none of them or anyone else would be interested in responding to someone who would snap at another researcher the way you did to Mary. Shame on you!!!!! Don Houk in Tokyo