I am looking for a J. T. Oldham that moved to ElDorado KS in 1879 from Iowa . He was in the furniture making business and became an undertaker. His daughter Caroline married a Samuel Kennedy Irwin Jr. . They had a daughter Lydia Mulvina that married a Bernard Stiver (from Germany). They had a daughter named Santie Agatha that married George Wilson. Santie and George are my grandparents. my e-mail is [email protected] .net or [email protected] tacomaclick.net