I am also looking for Oldham-in Alabama . I would suggest pulling up Lauderdale Co. AL. you will find many Oldham's there, i thank this will help you. This will help also look for the Oldham spelling OLEHAM in Colbert Co. AL. This is my g grandfather His name was John D. Oleham 1st wife was Ada Harrison Oleham 2nd Eliza Minor Oleham he John changed the spelling from Oldham to Oleham. His granddaughter in Florence AL. told me this when i talked with her by phone. John D. Oleham had two sons William , the other named Johnnie. My grandmother married Johnnie thay had two children my father James Thomas Oldham,Anna L. Oldham Brown. I do not know how the name was changed for some and not others?. William Oldham had four children William, Elnora, Cinderella, Robert Oldham. There Mothers name was Lula Holloway Oldham, Coats. Williams fam. most live in AR. My grandmothers name Rosa B. Holloway ,Lula and Rosa Sisters. My aunte Anna L was buried at Hayti MO. cemetery I hope this helps Tom