In a message dated 4/13/99 7:28:22 PM Pacific Daylight Time, pdavis@poboxes.com writes: << Hi, I have received 3 e-mails today for you requesting information. First, If you want a death Certificate, you need to request that from the STATE (Oklahoma). There is not office at the Mountain Grove cemetery with records that you want..... So, I don't understand what do want. This cemetery is very old...... I will be in Duncan after the 1st week in May and will be glad to look up the cemetery record. Is this what you want? Just a little note. I do this as a GIFT..... I do not receive money...... BUT, I DO IT WHEN I GET TIME....... EACH NOTE THAT YOU SENT TODAY, SOUND VERY RUDE. DO YOU WANT HELP OR NOT. I'm sorry that I have not finished all the page just for you.... I have worked on this project for over two years, would you like to do it. P. Davis >> Patricia, I apologize if my note(s) sounded rude. I appreciate all the help I get and demand nothing from anyone, ever. I will not begin to tell you all I went through just to get an e-mail address to send the request to. I was at the site several times, bumped several times, did not see an e-mail address that appeared to be correct. Apparently, the copywrite circle was what I needed to click on, "who knew". The site said "e-mail me for lookups". Did not say who "me" was. I had no clue. Your name was not by it, and I thought the copywrite spot was relating to the designer of the page. When I sent it to someone else, she said it was online, or so she thought and she also supplied me with your e-mail address. I went back again and at that point I clicked on the copywrite address and that is perhaps how you got more that one message. If you received both of them it was an error and nothing else. If you received a third one it is perhaps a correction on my part that I wanted to send to clarify something. I would suggest that you indicate the copywrite circled area is the area to click for inquiries. I thought I would be able to request from the cemetery itself, burial records. That is why I was trying to get an address. Yes, I would like the cemetery record, at your convience. Now regarding not having the pages finished "just for me". That was pretty rude of you and very clear to me. Maybe you would be happier, and be less inclined to send such rude responses, if you were to remove yourself from the responsibility of that cemetery project. Finally, you ask if I wanted to do it? My response to that is this: I am very talented in many areas, and I share my knowledge and time in those areas, also without pay. I do it for free. ! I would not know the first thing about doing what you are doing with Mountain Grove Cemetery. So to that question, I decline. Sincerely, Karen