This is a Message Board Post that is gatewayed to this mailing list. Classification: Query Message Board URL: http://boards.ancestry.com/mbexec/msg/an/kYB.2ACE/1632.1 Message Board Post: This is your lucky day. Obits for Rufus and members of his family are online. http://www.rootsweb.com/~usgenweb/ok/grady/grady.html Look under obits. Also look at Sitterding Obits. Nearly everyone of them mention a Busby. Look at Alex, Naples, Ninnekah, Fairlawn, Friendship and Rosehill cemeteries. Gene