Hi Carren, I have been looking for a William GRAY, who married Eliza A. CRABILL/LISTER in Pickaway Co., 1871. I did go thru the 1860 census, for Pickaway Co., and the only GRAY I found, was living next door to Eliza's family in Perry Twp. This is what I found: Jesse GRAY, age 62, W, M, Framer b.MD Nancy age 50, W, F, b. OH Charlotte, age 23, W,F, b. OH Wm. A. age 18, W,M. farm labor b. OH Isaac W. age 15, W,M, farm labor b. OH Melvin age 10, W,M b. OH Minerva age 10, W,F b. OH Charlotte. age 85, W,F, b. MD This doesn't seem to be the same family you are looking for, but maybe you will find it useful. Good luck, Toni