Hi Nancy, This is a long shot but could you look in your Perry County, Ohio book for a marriage between Eli "Joseph" GRAVES and a Rosa "Rosy" M ? My grandfather was supposed to have had a first wife that we know nothing about. It probably would have been between 1900 - 1918. While visiting Ohio a few months ago I went to Perry County and looked up land records. I did find "Joseph" GRAVES and wife Rosa M owned land in the village of Crooksville, Perry County, Ohio between 1907 - 1909. They bought it in 1907 and sold it in 1909. Also, if anybody has any cemetery books, if there is a Rosa M wife of Eli "Joseph" GRAVES that might have died between 1909 - 1918. Thanks, BaBa vizsla2@aol.com