Sorry, I said that Bomma was BOM Bender, I do not know this for a fact - "Bomma" is what is written on the tombstone and she is buried in the Bender plot. If this is translatable I would appreciate ANY help. Grandpa Tyler said there was an old lady that sat in a rocking chair in the back room and did not speak any English when he was a kid called "MUDKA" me thinks it may have been his grandmother. Bomma sounds alittle like a family name of endearment?????