Hi Susan O'Brien, I believe you are confusing me with some others on this list--I am not involved in this little "spat" going on here. The woman named Sandra said something a bit rude to a couple of others on this list who didn't like what she had written previously and had told her that they had found her remarks offensive. <<If this is offensive, then I think you need to get the chip off your shoulder.....>> This is when I stepped in, I have no other interest in the subject whatsoever, except that being on this list, I don't find this the kind of stuff that the majority of the rest of us want to read. But when you make a remark telling someone to get the chip off her shoulder to someone--I find THAT offensive. Flaming is not allowed on these lists. Sandra also sent this which she said someone else (?) wrote to her << I certainly wouldn't want to be married to Mrs. Vice-Regent, Pres of OGS Jefferson Co. You didn't do anything wrong. Her own e-mail showed her to be a woman who is unyielding.>> this also is insulting, don't you think? So, hopefully I made my myself understood in this message--I am not involved in this and don't wish to be. Please when someone must write this sort of stuff--do it directly to the person's own e-mail and not put all these arguments on the list for everyone else to have to read. And don't write to me, write to the ones who are involved in the dispute! :-) Judie