LAURA, I DO NOT KNOW YOU BUT COMMEND YOU FOR TRYING TO HELP INCONSIDERATE AND UNGRATEFUL PEOPLE. AT TIMES I HOP ON THIS SITE, SINCE I LIVE IN SANDUSKY, AND WILL HELP SOMEONE. I ALWAYS CHOSE SOMEONE THAT IS NOT ASKING FOR AN ARM OR A LEG!! JUST A FEW BASICS I.E DEATH CERTIFICATE, PICTURE OF A TOMBSTONE. I MUST SAY THAT OUT OF THE ONES I HAVE HELPED HAVE HAD ONLY 2 OR 3 THAT WERE UNGRATEFUL. WHEN ANY OF US SEE A PLEA FOR HELP ON THE SCREEN FROM SOMEONE THAT LIVES FAR AWAY OUR HEART GOES OUT AND WANTS TO HELP THEM, HOPING SOMEDAY SOMEONE WILL RETURN THE FAVOR. THEY FORGET THAT WE DO NOT ASK FOR MONEY FOR DOING THIS AND THAT WE HAVE LIVES, FAMILIES AND GENEALOGY OF OUR OWN TO DO. SO I DO NOT BLAME YOU ONE BIT FOR BACKING OFF. IF AND WHEN THIS HAPPENS TO ME I WILL DO THE SAME. SO MANY PEOPLE ARE IN THIS ME-ME-ME SOCIETY - SO LET THEM GO FIND THE INFO THEMSELVES. ENJOY YOUR FREE TIME. PAT CALDWELL