Great idea . I'll be as brief as possible. When my father's cousin died about 30 yrs ago, his only child, Tom, lost touch with his father's only sibling, Aunt Eleanor. Whenever Tom would visit the cemetery he would leave a note on the grave for Eleanor, he knew she must visit the grave because someone always left flowers. He never heard from Eleanor. Tom's grandmother always left notes in a seashell at cemeteries. Eleanor passed away last year, but about 5 yrs ago, Eleanor was living in a Home and was rushed to the hospital for emergency surgery. The staff at the Home went thru her things to try and find a relative. Needless to say, they found all of Tom's notes from the cemetery. The staff contacted Tom and for her last few years, Eleanor had a loving family, after being alone for such a long time. Good Luck, Pat