This is a Message Board Post that is gatewayed to this mailing list. Author: greenweedz Surnames: Classification: queries Message Board URL: http://boards.rootsweb.com/localities.northam.usa.states.newyork.counties.queens/4161.4.1/mb.ashx Message Board Post: Thank you for your thoughts and your very thorough reply. I had tried contacting the funeral home twice, to no avail. Third time was the charm. Last month I decided to snail mail them rather than email them and even enclosed a SASE - and it worked (how does a place stay in business if it posts an email address on its website and then doesn't respond to emails? sigh). Yesterday, I got a handwritten note with the exact gravesite in Calvary. Success! I guess persistence - and the US Postal Service - is key. Had I not received that note, I would now be contacting the three cemeteries you mention. Thank you - and thanks to everyone - who offered advice. Important Note: The author of this message may not be subscribed to this list. If you would like to reply to them, please click on the Message Board URL link above and respond on the board.