This is a Message Board Post that is gatewayed to this mailing list. Author: greenweedz Surnames: Classification: queries Message Board URL: http://boards.rootsweb.com/localities.northam.usa.states.newyork.counties.queens/4161.4.1.1.1/mb.ashx Message Board Post: Thank you so much for that offer! - but no need. We live in NJ, and my husband and I regularly visit four cemeteries in Queens and Long Island to put flowers on family graves -- and Calvary is one of the four. We try to go every Christmastime and again in the summer. So while we are visiting my mother's grave in Calvary, we'll take a little side trip and find the Smith grave. Yes, I do plan to inform Calvary of their mistake, but I will do that after I have the photo to show them. If only I had found out the gravesite a little earlier, I could have taken care of this during our Christmas visit. But it's OK if it waits a few more months. Important Note: The author of this message may not be subscribed to this list. If you would like to reply to them, please click on the Message Board URL link above and respond on the board.