I have been stuck on these grandparents for years. My Mary FULLER was born abt. 1843 in Otsego County. Her father's name was Bethuel (sometimes mistaken as Bethnel). Her mother's name was Hannah GRAVES (another secretive bunch). My Mary married 1) Henry Crandall who was killed in the Civil War. 2) Philip DECKER. At this time she was living in Otego and in earlier years the FULLER family lived in Laurens. Mary and Philip moved to New Berlin, Chenango County, NY, where they both died. Mary's siblings are William, Ezra, Charles, Julia, Harriett and Ann FULLER. I have found nothing else on the family. Can anyone help? Hugh? Elaine