Hi all, My children have a saying "Take a pill" whenever either of their parents get bent out of shape. I think we all need to realize that there are two sides to this question and neither has a stranglehold on RIGHT. It should be possible to ask for help - and if we don't want to assist we hit delete. It should also be possible to let newcomers know what is involved in a process without being slaughtered. Perhaps we should all remember that we can reply directly to someone without cluttering up the list with petty squabbles. Bravo to BJ for publicly acknowledging his gaff. We are ALL here because we ultimately hope to gain from our association. In the past two years on the internet I have doubled my previous 17 years of information because I have freely shared as well as taken. It still cuts both ways. Thanks to all who have helped ! Lil -----Original Message----- From: NYORANGE-D-request@rootsweb.com <NYORANGE-D-request@rootsweb.com> To: NYORANGE-D@rootsweb.com <NYORANGE-D@rootsweb.com> Date: Thursday, November 04, 1999 4:10 AM Subject: NYORANGE-D Digest V99 #127