Good idea Mary to Re: Post who we are looking for with all the new people on the list. I only have one. My grandfather Charles Whalen. We are from the Bronx & Manhattan. Somehow after his first wife died in 1940 he moved up to Newburgh. Married Thelma Lair in the Newburgh Elks Club. By 1947 he died. I don't know where he is buried or the year he died. thanks, June :-)