Karen - I have caught Poucher & Ter - in date errors - but can understand it. They had my GGgGGM dying before her husband - yet she is mentioned (and alive) in his will probation. Upon further investigation and careful feel reading of the gravestone P&T had mistaken a worn "4" for a "1" . With this all of the conflicts went away. Best wishes in resolving your conflict ! ! Frank Sloat Arnold, MD