Kathy, I used the internet white pages to get the addresses and phone numbers for the cemeteries. The ones I contacted Forest Hill and Calvary seemed to have the surnames indexed and did a lookup on while I was on the phone, didn't take long at all. They had the cause of death also which is important for our medical histories.They were so kind and helpful. The form: Name of deceased: Date of birth & death: Place of birth: Place of death: Last known residence: Next of kin: Grave # Notes: I filled out what information they had given me and they said they would fill out everything else. I included a few extra forms in case they had more family members buried there also. I use Dana{ my great grandmother's name} for my e-mail Carol "Valrico, fl"