Kathy: Wow, I really liked what you said, it makes so much sense! I always have believed that somehow a negative thing that you did in the past, like not making up with somebody or forgiving somebody, it could come back to you. Just like when you wish something bad on someone you don't care for, or, someone who has hurt you,that can come back to you, and bad things could happen to you. This has happened to me, and now I try not to wish anything bad on anyone. I guess because that person has wronged you, you want them doubly to feel how you felt when they wronged you. It's hard to let go of regrets, but if you can let go of one or two regrets, it can be very healing, and you feel a sense of renewal. I was able to forgive my dad for some unspeakable actions by him in the past,and that is one thing I'm so glad I was able to do. I can truely say that that is one regret I don't have to live with the rest of my life. Obviously, some people can and won't ever change. If you did the best you could in trying to forgive them and they could have cared less, you left in their hands because you let go of it. Sorry I got on my band wagon here, but so much of what you said, Kathy, really makes sense and I can truely understand it. Kim