Sandy, If you can go on the net and look for funeral parlors in that area and hopefully there are to many you might contact them ( some have e-mail addresses that you can write directly to from the net) and ask them if they might have your relative listed in their records. They often will do a look up for free if you have the name and at least a idea of when they died. They will even send you a copy of their info. Joan Beebe Meddaugh