Hi Laurie - And thank you back for your nice e-mail. I'll let everyone know how the phone call to my father's second wife goes or doesn't go. She should have received my letter Wednesday, so she's had two days to digest it. Will she hang up on me? I'm guessing there's a 50/50 chance she will ! Diane **************Biggest Grammy Award surprises of all time on AOL Music. (http://music.aol.com/grammys/pictures/never-won-a-grammy?NCID=aolcmp003000000025 48)