There is a dark secret about findagrave.com I found out from a group who tried to replace lousy photos with better photos. I still have that message informing me of the problem. Findagrave.com will not allow it. Not at all. Not even to update the information already there. Like replacing the incomplete dates with complete dates. newyorkgravestones.org allow it - just contact the administrator direct and the photo will be replaced, no question asked. Even to add new updated information. Better features are at newyorkgravestones site - quick searches and locating specific information in different ways. Even to find a married daughter whose married name is not known to you. Searches are available in different ways. Findagrave.com is more on data rather than photos. NewYorkgravestones has BOTH, every time. W. David Samuelsen, New York Gravestone Photo Project