My suggestion is to be sure your family data end with your grandparents or the generation that is no longer living.   I did battle with one popular site that was obnoxiously rigid and refused to remove data about living people.  One had me married to my husband's father.  They ultimately "saw the light" and removed it.  But it took a lot of e-mails and threats of law suits.   I do not like sharing my data with sites that charge others to view MY data, but how else am I going to get it out there?   Adrian