I stared my family history in 1981 and Mum and Dad were fascinated, we found out that My paternal grandfather was illigitimate which didn't suprise Dad, but when I told my Uncle his reaction was 'of course she was married, she had THREE children'. I had great difficulty find out when my Gt Grandmother died until we realised that she was buried under the name of the man she was living with at the time (still unmarried) Jan