waymon, and norwood listers, ...i apologise for the manner in which i went about requesting information. i'm sure this will sound rude...especially to direct relations of the woman i was looking for...it never crossed my mind she would be living. ...i agree there are good reasons to be cautious with posted information. i am certainly open to input concerning the appropriate form for such a requst... ...my sincerest apologies. -xXx- mona