While going through some old notebooks and checking I'd entered everything on my database, I ended up looking again at John BARBER [b.c.1838] who I'd been told had 3 wives and I have marriage certificates for 2 and 3. I took at look at the Norfolk records now on Familysearch and found wife number 1 - bingo! I then took another look at wife number 2, Lucy CHAPMAN, b.c.1839, who married John BARBER at West Dereham in 1864. I had not found Lucy prior to 1851 when she was aged 12 and living with her family. In 2004 I bought the birth certificate for Lucy's illegitimate daughter, Anna Elizabeth CHAPMAN, born at West Dereham in 1858. I'm not sure why but I looked for Anna Elizabeth's baptism on Familysearch and there she was. But the interesting thing is that in the baptismal register Lucy's name is given as "Lucy CHAPMAN otherwise STARLING". That has now given me the 1841 census where the family name is STARLON. I then thought that maybe Lucy's parents had died and she'd gone to live with relatives but the Norfolk baptisms also gave me another child of Lucy's parents where the surname of father and child is given as "CHAPMAN commonly called STARLING". I wonder why! Of course, one mystery solved is another created! And I also wonder why the name of STARLING didn't make it to the birth certificate - presumably it was deemed to be unnecessary. My thanks to the wonderful people at Familysearch. There's no way I would ever have had an opportunity to check those registers without this facility. Carol