I have a friend who is starting to get interested in his family history. Unfortunately his father died before he was born, he was raised by an Aunt and Uncle and has been basically alienated from his family. He cannot even get me back to 1930 so I suggested we start with dct and/or obits. We found his father on the SSN so that is at least one starting point. What I need help with is finding his mother. He does not know her name at the time of her death. His mother was born Betty Sue Lewellyn (sp)I am guessing 1935-1940 - possibly in New York. She married second a man by the name of Roland (surname). She married a third time unknown. This third marriage was most likely in California. Betty Sue died in 2002 most likely in Palo Alto CA. Is there a way to find her third marriage with so little to go on? Is there a way to find her death date with no surname? Any help appreciated. Betty